Hello Readers!
Dear readers,
I am so sorry for not writing for such a long time. I am not even sure if anyone visits this site any more? I have been incredibly busy. I will try, however, to post more frequently.
I am in the process of writing a book on all disciplinary aspects from the inner child all the way up to the inner slut. Some of the disciplines are not solely dependent on pain (particularly the inner child) but on deeper levels of humiliation. Deeper levels of humiliation in turn unlock the very centre of a woman's submission. It is only through the very deepest humiliation can a woman truly come face to face with the very heart of her submission. In doing so, the book hopes to clarify that there would no longer be any limits or barriers to "any" disciplinary technique. Many barriers are psychological blocks. By overcoming these blocks the woman will have reached the ultimate and absolute depth to her submission.
I hope to have this book finished early next year, or even sooner if time prevails! ;-)
Respectfully,
~C~
posted by C's Correction @ 10:02 am
24 comments
24 Comments:
My wife and I are looking forward to Your book and we hope that You will continue Your blog also. Greetings.
Yes, I'm sure you still have readers! You touch a spot in our hearts.
Hi,
I like what you wrote about just this week. I am fairly new to really asking my husband to discipline me, yet I have known I needed it for a very long time. I understand what you said about humiliation. I would love to read your book when it is out, I really think you understand some deep things.
Thanks for your words, they are a relief to hear.
I'm still here. I enjoy your writings and re-read the past posts. Now, I'm looking forward to your book. Keep up the effort!!!
Nice to see a new post. Yes, I'm sure a number of us still check from time to time to see if there has been a new blog post.
Your book idea sounds interesting. Good luck in writing efforts. I'm sure you will make a wonderful contribution in passing along knowledge and your thoughts about LDD.
As far as your blog goes, I've wondered if you had any challenges in returning to your treasured relationship after being gone for some time?
Had an online friend whose husband was away in military service for an extended time period. They kept up a respectful form of an LDD type of relationship via creative email instructions and other communications.
However, upon her HOH's return, he felt it would be helpful to use a few weeks of frequent discipline to help reinforce or I suppose to reestablish their roles in a more meaningful way than just using words.
As I recall, he didn't start right away as he wanted them to reconnect and they were also surrounded by friends and family for the first few days.
As nervous as she was about what he told her he was going to do, I think in the long run she wound up feeling that it was in her best interests and did accomplish what he set out to do.
Well, again good luck with your writing endeavors. Hope this finds you and yours healthy and happy.
Best wishes,
Victoria
Hello, I like your blog. If you like we could exchange liunks betwen our blogs. Let me know!!!
Greetings.
i just found this blog through property's blog http://www.ownedbymyhusband.blogspot.com and i saw you have been blogging since 2005. i look forward to reading your past posts, and am excited to hear about your new book venture. i wish you all the luck in the world with it, and look forward to your continued posts here as well.
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I'd been waiting to read your blog for many months, C.
Good luck on your book and hope you can update your blog more often soon.
~elin~
I've been reading your blog and hope you'll keep writing, although I disagree with the "sexual punishment" aspects of your agenda. My problem is not with BDSM or sexuality, it's with trying to DENY that sexual acts are, well, sexual! I've just begun a dialogue with Constance on the subject and am posting here some of what we have written. Hope it isn't too long.
spanked wife said...
I don't feel good about the use of forced sexual activity (or inactivity) as part of discipline. My husband was a policeman who earned college and law degrees studying part-time and eventually became a high-ranking chief of detectives in a large Police Department. Perhaps because he spent his life in law enforcement and was exposed to so many things, he would have been horrified by, for example, a husband forcing his wife to perform fellatio (or to refrain from orgasm.) We never engaged in anal sex at all; we regarded those practices as dangerous to health. Our marriage took place in the early 1960s and perhaps there are fewer health risks today. His experiences and his studies had convinced him that laws banning "sodomy" (which at the time was defined also to encompass oral sex) were ill-advised and unenforceable, but it was only recently that the Supreme Court caught up with his thinking. [Note: we are Americans.] When we got engaged, we agreed that we would not deny each other sex. It made sense for us to want to meet each other's needs, and we both enjoyed our sexual relationship. I think we were lucky in that our sex drives were similar. If anything, I was more interested, because he was preoccupied with other things. While I enjoyed his performing oral sex on me, I didn't like doing it to him, and although I never told him directly, he seemed to know. On our honeymoon, he had told me that he didn't expect me to "do that" but that he might ask me to when I was having a period and we were unable to have intercourse. I said that of course I would do it whenever he asked...which I did...but he seldom asked. Every few months he'd fall to his knees in front of me, something that was part of our occasional "break up to make up" erotic routine, and tell me that he'd be very grateful if I would "do this for him" because he felt a strong need for it. I would say, "of course, it will be my pleasure," and pretend to be enthusiastic in my performance. But it was never really my pleasure, and I suppose you can't lie to a cop!
August 13, 2008 1:03 AM
Constance said...
Dear Spanked Wife,
Thank you so much for your thoughtful and interesting comments.
Your relationship certainly does sound like it was what we now call 'Taken in Hand' but which was once simply a traditional marriage. There were also elements of Domestic Discipline; again, once simply a marriage.
I sometimes feel a bit hesitant, sheepish even, about detailing the rougher, kinkier aspects of my relationship with Mr. C., because I fear this may detract from the essential message I'm trying to convey about the joys inherent in submitting to a loving, dominant man. What I call 'Pure Domestic Discipline' does not include any sort of sexual punishment, bondage, orgasm denial, or humiliation. It is very simply a relationship style in which the woman submits to the man, and is punished (usually by spanking) if she disobeys. That sounds like your marriage, doesn't it?
In the end I have nevertheless opted to describe sexual punishments received, and our dabbles in BDSM etc., because this blog is ultimately for and about me and my experiences and thoughts. I do not mean for it to be a Domestic Discipline blueprint for others, though I'm certainly delighted when readers do learn something or adopt some of our techniques (putting beads in a jar to represent swats earned has caught on among several of my blogging friends).
Thank you again for commenting, and I jope you'll share more with us in the future.
Sincerely,
Constance
I am new here, and I was wondering if you was commanded to blog? and if so how often. I personally would love to read your blog like once a week. I too am looking forward to your book
What very good news.
I trust you are well and happy.
Hello Mr C,
Yes, I am very well and happy thank you.
I had one or two personal troubles which prevented me from maintaining my site but I am over the worse.
Lovely to hear from you :-)
I look forward to catching up on your own blog.
Respectfully,
~C~
Hello there!!! I was just curious how is the book coming along and when do you expect it to release.
Thank you
Kristen
Hello Kristen,
I love your blog! I would very much like to add it to my links section?
I had to put the whole book idea on temporary hiatus. I have had one or two personal problems and other work commitments which have prevented me from doing the research. Hopefully I can start up again soon :-)
All the best,
~C~
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Hi C,
This is Vivian over at The Disciplined Feminist.
Just stopped by to email you and let you know about my new DD ebook, but I'm not seeing an email address, so this seems the only way to contact you!
Variant Books is publishing "How to Get the Spanking You Want" (www.HowToGetaSpanking.com) -- written for women (and men) who want a DD relationship, but aren't sure how to bring the topic up with their partners.
I thought perhaps you and your readers might be interested.
Also, if you're shopping for a publisher for your ebook, I'd be happy to put you touch with Clare and Andrew over at Variant Publishing. They're expanding their catalog and might be interested, when you're ready.
Let me know!
Sorry for posting this to general comments,
Warmest.
Viv
www.TheDisciplinedFeminist.com
I agree! The vast majority of followers never posts a comment.
But we nevertheless follow your blog and we all hope you will write again soon.
We ar e very curious to when you will release your book.
Pls keep us up to date.
Best wishes from Germany.
Welcome back! I know the feeling - I haven't been on my blog in so long that I am sure I have lost some folks. Hopefully they'll come back! Good luck on the book.
Are you still writing new posts?
Dear R&c,
Thank you for your supportive and kind comments.
Best wishes from the UK :-)
I like your blog!
~C~
Daer Karyn,
Thank you for your support. It is indeed very difficult getting back to blogging after being away for so long.
My book has had to go on hiatus due to personal problems. Hopefully I will continue with it again soon.
All the best,
~C~
Hello anonymous,
I should get back to writing soon. I am actually going to be overseas for a couple of months, but will hopefully continue when I get back. I have had one or two ideas of new posts :-)
Thanks for asking,
~C~
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